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March 19, 2006

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I agree it's women who have the right idea. Women are less likely to agree to sacrifice a family life, a relationship with their children, for a prestigious, high-paying job. It's not all discrimination that leads to fewer women having those jobs. I would rather make $35k a year at legal aid, work from 9 to 4:30, get six weeks vacation per year, and have supper with my kids every day. That's probably why there's only one man (a senior citizen) at the legal aid office where I worked my first summer.

I absolutely think you're asking the right question - why do men stay? I remember saying at a Women's Section of my state bar meeting that the whole women/billable hours conflict didn't seem so much of a women's problem to me, but more of a people problem. And people just sort of smiled nicely at me (innocent-law-student patronizing smile). An older woman came up to me after and said that she had made partner of her firm with fairly manageable hours, but that was really only after a man had protested ridiculous hours. Evidently he (being the son of the founding partner surely didn't hurt) said that he actually wanted to know his kids as they grew up and be home for dinner with them most nights and that set the tone for the whole firm.

No, I'm not saying that men need to lead the way for us, but a little partnership never hurt. No pun intended, really.

Y'know, I can't even honestly claimed that I wanted more quality time for my kids. I wanted quality time because I'm lazy, and hate working 16 hour days.

I'm poor but happy.

A Woman Who Is Not No Big Shot Law Partner

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